As life’s best moments go, the arrival of a baby has to be number one. A brand new life, arriving on the earth with a behavioral clean slate and unending possibilities, is an encouragement to us all.
Today it was my privilege to get acquainted with Thomas Nathan and Evelyn Sarah, both only three weeks old. They’re so new I have to think twice before addressing them, since their names were unknown to us just a short time ago. They are both “wonderfully made,” as the Bible describes babies, and we’ve all been twice blessed being given twins when a single birth was expected.
I also had fun getting reacquainted with Nicholas today, 16 months old and still a baby himself. As with most one year olds, his greatest joy is mimicking the adults in his world. The words “Would you like to help?” are his dream come true. He helped me hang the wash out to dry, managing to painfully snap a clothespin on his finger but not letting it discourage him. And that’s what’s so special about toddlers like Nicholas. They refuse to give up and are champions at persevering in their efforts to learn.
Today I also marveled at my own son’s active involvement as a father and my daughter-in-law’s ability to manage three young children and a new home while still recuperating from a double, natural childbirth. Though exhausted, Katy and Hans remain enthusiastic about the task at hand and continue to count their children as supreme blessings from God.
Tonight, after the three little people had been bathed and put to bed, we sat with our mugs of tea and enjoyed quiet conversation in the living room. In talking of children, we grieved over the losses caused by abortion and the unnumbered couples who long to adopt, but can’t do so because there are no babies available. In the middle of our chat, we heard from little Evelyn upstairs. “Let me go,” said Hans, who ran up and quickly reappeared with his newborn daughter in his arms. “She just wants a little cuddle,” he said.
Soon she was fast asleep again and put back to bed. As we continued to talk, moving to the mysterious topic of when human life actually begins and what God’s involvement is, we heard from Nicholas. “Let me,” Katy said, and disappeared up the steps. When she returned to our little circle her report was, “He just needed a cuddle.”
As we were just beginning to talk of embryonic research, we heard from Thomas. “I’ll go,” Hans said, bounding back upstairs again. When he returned, he had his baby boy on his shoulder saying, “He wants a little cuddle with papa.”
And so goes the life of young parents with three children under two years old. It wore me out just watching, and I get to sleep through the night! But in the midst of it all, the message came through loud and clear: all life is precious, and once in a while everybody needs a cuddle.
“[Parents] were bringing even infants to [Jesus] that he might touch them. And when the disciples saw it, they rebuked them. But Jesus called them to him, saying, ‘Let the children come to me, and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God’.” (Luke 18:15-16)