Stop and Go

What causes a woman to begin the process of laboring so strongly she can actually bring a baby into this world? The medical profession has a number of theories, none of which is scientifically conclusive, but all of them offer the same bottom line answer: no one knows.

Obstetric nurses will tell you women go into labor when there’s a full moon or a change in barometric pressure. Others might say it’s electrical storms, tornadoes, or hurricanes. A few insist labor begins when stars and planets align in a certain way.

But what do you do if everything within you longs to go into labor but you don’t? Self-help web sites offer all kinds of “natural” suggestions from castor oil to spicy foods to acupuncture, but results are mixed.

My favorite theory is the one that says labor is initiated by the baby herself. Science is speculating that maybe her adrenal gland releases cortisone, causing the placenta to convert estrogen to progesterone, which then produces prostiglandins, which cause the uterus to begin contracting.

If this theory is the correct one, it’s no wonder doctors can’t predict when labor will start. But even if that daisy chain of hormonal events is what triggers it, the baby probably can’t willfully signal her own adrenal gland to start the action. So, what or who does?

Of course it’s God.

I firmly believe he is present with his breath of life at every conception, and once a created being “gets started,” Scripture says it’s Jesus who holds it all together. Because of that, it seems logical the Trinity would be present and involved in the labor directive, “Now’s the time.”

Of course doctors can insist a birth take place by administering drugs, but often the woman’s body (and the baby) resist being rushed, making that known by increasing a mother’s suffering and pain through the labor process.

Contractions and their statistics (length and spacing) have been the conversational theme at our house since yesterday when we were sent home from the hospital with instructions not to return until pains were closer. So Birgitta had a 2nd night of misery, to which Louisa and I said, “Oh, that’s wonderful!” referring to her progress.

But the new day brought a new wrinkle: Labor stopped. Then hours later, it resumed. Then later stopped. And as I’m writing this, it has once again resumed.

Anticipation builds as Birgitta goes into her 3rd miserable night, and a verse from Ecclesiastes is looping in my brain: “God has made everything beautiful in its time.” (v. 11)

And it just isn’t time.

 

7 thoughts on “Stop and Go

  1. Oh, I am praying for Birgitta and her little one! I can well imagine her frustration, but this will not last forever. She will be holding her little girl in her arms so soon! Try not to frame these contractions as “false” because they aren’t – they are real and they are doing real work. Each one triggers her uterine cells to produce even more oxytocin receptors so they will be even more responsive to her labor hormones. The more advance preparation her body can do now, the less work it will ultimately have to do during the really active parts of labor. Now’s the time for some last minute pampering for relaxation: long warm bath, massage, good food, whatever sounds appealing and relaxing. Can’t wait to hear the next step of Birgitta’s birth journey!

  2. Already this little gal is full of surprises! You’re right, God’s timing is perfect. Praying as you all wait and hope today.

  3. What a blessing to have the Godly advice from a ‘birthing nurse in training’, Aron! If the water hasn’t broken…..i would say the baby is making her own ‘prebirth notices’…..and….yes, the best thing Brigitta can do for herself is PAMPER, and RELAX! If you need to get up and move, walk and do the ‘slow squatting’ several times a day.
    Of course, as I write this…..she may have already had the baby!
    God bless all of you and look forward to the good news!

  4. Every twinge, sharp pain, and ache tell us that movement is taking place. Bones, nerves, muscles, ligaments, tissue, and blood vessels are all getting into proper alignment, so Baby Girl can have a beautiful birth! We have to remember that this is a first for them, too. Be sure to keep the Doctor informed; there is a medicine that is used for the lining in the lungs that also works to “soothe” the uterus. Lots of remedies, old and new. Some of the old ones make me laugh, now.