Failing to Faint

Cancer is not for the faint of heart. When any major life-calamity hits us, we have several choices in the way we respond. We can flee, fight, or faint. Tomorrow morning (Monday) Mary’s doctor and his surgical team at Mayo Clinic will “put her under” and go through the complicated steps of something called the Whipple surgery.

SurgeryThese doctors and nurses are pros at this procedure and have done it many times.  Because Mary has been called “an excellent candidate” for it, the medical staff is confident she’ll get a new lease on life as a result.

They aren’t saying they can cure her, but they do label the surgery “curative”. My layman’s understanding is that after Mary has recuperated, she’ll feel cured. On a best-case basis, her cancer crisis will have all but disappeared, which sounds pretty good!

As with every cancer diagnosis, in the early days Mary was overwhelmed – faint of heart. But she refused to stay there. It wasn’t 24 hours before she’d pulled out her best weapons (God and his Word) and begun to fight, though what she chose to go up against wasn’t cancer but her personal enemies: fear, worry, doubt, and… faintness of heart.

Scripture reminds us in half-a-dozen places not to let ourselves grow faint, whether we’re facing surgery or any other crisis. It also gives us the how-to. Here’s one example: “Do not let your heart faint, do not be afraid, and do not tremble or be terrified because of [your enemies]; for the Lord your God is he who goes with you, to fight for you against your enemies.” (Deuteronomy 20:3-4)

The Bible’s most frequently cited instruction on this is found in Isaiah 40:31: “Those who wait on the Lord… shall walk and not faint.” More than likely this is referring to walking through life without becoming faint of heart. Instead we’re to be confident in God’s ability to keep us from it.

Mary and BervinAs Mary is wheeled away from her family toward the O.R. tomorrow morning, she may be tempted to slip toward a heart-fainting, but if she does, she told me she’s ready with a secret weapon. She’ll follow our mom’s example. When Mom was faced with a similar crisis, she hummed a favorite hymn to lift her from a near-faint:

Turn your eyes upon Jesus,
Look full in His wonderful face,
And the things of earth will grow strangely dim,
In the light of His glory and grace.

After that, even as Mary sleeps during surgery, she won’t grow faint.

“The everlasting God, the Lord, The Creator of the ends of the earth, neither faints nor is weary.” (Isaiah 40:28)

Mary’s prayer requests several hours before surgery:

  1. Praise for so much loving support
  2. Praise for God’s wisdom that has come through prayer
  3. Pray for Dr. Truty and his surgical team
  4. Pray that Mary will be a good example of someone who trusts Christ
  5. Pray for courage to face the unknown

14 thoughts on “Failing to Faint

  1. PRAYING! Arlington CBS will also be praying about 9:15 on Monday morning. Love you Mary and family and will be thinking about you all during this difficult time. All things are possible when we have the Lord on our side.

  2. Mary, Our hearts and mind are with you tonight. Knowing only God’s best is waiting for you. We say a prayer with every thought of you, dear ole friend. Rest in HIs care.
    “The Lord is pleased with those who worship him, and trust His love.” Psalm 147:11 With love, Shel & Pat

  3. I’m up with Sarah & Cliff. We all send our love to you all and prayers and thoughts.

  4. Remembering dear Mary in our prayers together with John Warton who was visiting with us yesterday at College Church, Wheaton, asking God to grant you all His peace that passes all understanding & guards our hearts & minds in Christ Jesus. May The Lord’s healing hand be upon Mary as she recovers from today’s operation. With much love!

  5. Praying for Mary, her family and for you! I have taken care of many Whipple surgery patients over the years. Tough surgery but often good results. I just saw a patient yesterday who had a Whipple 3 weeks ago. She is home and doing well with a very good prognosis.

  6. You are in our hearts and prayers, Mary. You and your whole family. We ask the Lord to bless you with His perfect peace and that you sense His care and compassion in all those surrounding you today. We love you.

  7. Am praying for your sister this morning, Margaret. Our Lord and THE great Physician are able.

  8. Mary, I pray that the Lord orchestrate every response of your body, that the staffs’ hands are sure, the instruments are faultless, and that it is the Lords will that all our prayers for you and yours are answered.

  9. Was praying today for angels to be in the room to watch over her and the doctors. How did it go???

  10. Thank you Margaret for being such a courageous “sister” in Christ to so many of us widows. Your put my busy work day into perspective as “blessed”. We are all standing by Mary in prayer.