Oh Mama!

Because so many of you blog-readers love stories about my mom, here’s a bit of info. As you read between the lines, you’ll see how she came to be the colorful person she was.

Mom at age 3Mom was born at home in 1912, arriving just before Christmas. Because she was a month premature, she wasn’t healthy, so the doctor told her parents not to name her. That way when she died, he said, they wouldn’t be too attached. And so she remained “Baby” through December and into 1913. By St. Patrick’s Day her father, a full-blooded Irishman, nicknamed her “Pat” after the holiday and called her that the rest of his years.

Eventually they named her Evelyn Pauline after an older brother, Everett Paul, who had died at the age of 8 in a school yard accident.

Mom at 18Growing up during the Depression, she learned to pinch a penny with expertise and made sure we could, too. She married a shy, 42 year old Swede when she was 28. Unable to wait until he popped the question, she proposed to him instead.

When asked what she wanted as a housewarming gift, she said, “Toys for children who might visit us.” Before she had any of her own kids, she made friends with all the neighborhood children, and even while in labor with her first baby, she delayed leaving for the hospital to pass out homemade cookies up and down the block.

Mom's wedding dayAfter having two little girls born 20 months apart, Mom was expecting a third when she began hemorrhaging and was rushed to the hospital. After being given the wrong blood type from an inaccurately labeled bottle, she nearly died. But God had other plans for Evelyn Pauline Pat James Johnson.

Although doctors cautioned Mom not to become pregnant again, our brother Tom came along on Dad’s 50th birthday, a definite bonus to all of us. To this day I think Mom tricked Dad, since she’d wanted nothing more than a houseful of children. Eventually she got her wish with 17 grandchildren, all living local and all in love with their grandma.

Mom plus her 3Mom viewed children as marvels to be cherished, protected and admired. She never encountered a child she didn’t approve of and although her influence rubbed off on them, her greatest joy came when theirs rubbed off on her.

She also loved music and practiced piano daily. In her teens she taught lessons, in her thirties played the four-keyboard organ for Moody Church, and in her prime accompanied enough weddings and funerals to put us through college, though she always gave the money back to the bride instead.

Mom at the Moody organMom memorized entire books of the bible, taught high school Sunday school for decades, and conducted in-home Bible studies throughout her married life. But she also loved a good practical joke and made frequent use of her whoopee cushion, plastic vomit, and artificial dog poop. No wonder kids loved her.

Dad used to say Mom was a risk-taker. Tomorrow I’ll prove it.

“A cheerful heart is good medicine.” (Proverbs 17:22)

10 thoughts on “Oh Mama!

  1. I love reading stories about your Mom. She was genuinely in love with Jesus – and with life!

  2. I fondly remember Aunt Pat and loved her for her love she showed me the first Sunday i arrived at Moody Church. I’ve loved her, admired her, and respected her for years. Most of all her love for Jesus oozed from her pores onto anyone who came near her.

  3. I can remember one of those weddings. I was the soloist and Aunt Pat was on the organ. The bride and groom wanted “Bridge Over Troubled Water” sung. I didn’t see how that song would translate to the pipe organ and a lyric soprano. Aunt Pat, with all confidence, said it would be ok…she was right. She made it so beautiful on the organ, I only had to follow her lead.

  4. I missed the first “post” on your mother’s early days! Thanks again–love learning more about her. We loved that she could be apart of our wedding! So uplifting to be in the presence of someone who is in the presence of Christ and has such a joyful spirit! Judi

  5. Loved hearing stuff about your mom that I didn’t know, like where the name Pat came from. She was as full of life as anyone I’ve ever known and loved Jesus as much as anyone I’ve ever known. It was an honor to know her and to have her play the organ at our wedding. Her life describes the words joy and love!

  6. Such wonderful history – about a gracious, loving woman and her gracious, loving daughters (and Tom, too!)! I still remember a New Year’s Eve all-night gig at your house; Sunday School classes with your mom; her kindness and good counsel to me during difficult times and not-so-difficult times. I always said that when I grew up, I wanted to be like Aunt Pat. Still trying to get there, as she was a daunting example of Christlikeness.

  7. It was such a joy to meet her at Adam and Linnea’s wedding. Just think, we’ll get to live in ‘eternity’ with her! I’m sure she keeps heaven laughing!