Here we go again.

This blog site came into existence during the summer of 2009, a few weeks before we learned of my husband Nate’s pancreatic cancer.

We were grateful to have a cyber-place already established where friends and family could be updated during his six weeks of illness.

It would have been impossible to tend to all the emails, texts, and calls wanting to know how he was doing.

Seven years later, this same blog came in handy once again for the same purpose. My sister Mary had contracted cancer, and we used it as a way to keep people current on how she was coping.

And now we find ourselves at the same place again, this time for the firstborn of our seven children, Nelson. It was less than two weeks ago that we learned why he had been feeling bad: He, too, had cancer.

Nelson has been robust and healthy throughout his 49 years. He ran marathons, swam a mile each day, and ran multiple miles with joy. He had a physical job with Youth With A Mission in Kona, Hawaii, and was on the go daily…and sometimes well into the night.

That is, until now.

Ten days ago, Nelson, with his wife Ann Sophie and their baby Will, were happily living and working in Kona, Hawaii on the Big Island. They were shepherding young people through a YWAM work program coupled with spiritual guidance that changed their lives forever.

We had plans to be together this July during their vacation time, but God put us together sooner than expected. In just a few days, here’s what has happened:

  1. Nelson, Ann Sophie and little Will, 10 weeks old, flew to Minneapolis, Minnesota to spend some time at cousin Luke’s home there, learning about the Mayo Clinic.
  2. Nelson became a patient at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN.
  3. Nelson, Ann Sophie, Will and I rented an apartment together that is only 6 minutes from Mayo’s.
  4. A group of hard working, cheerful people came together to move us in, donating furniture to our empty apartment. (More on this tomorrow.)
  5. In our first three days, Nelson has seen five different specialized doctors who each took a great deal of time with us. And he’s seen multiple nurses and imaging techs during the process of testing and fact-gathering about his cancer. The goal is to determine where the cancer began and thus what the treatment should be. We will know those things by early next week.

So…together we hope to write this daily blog, letting people know how Nelson and his young family are doing. We’re grateful they have so many friends who’ve already shown their love in both tangible and intangible ways. To all of you, we say a resounding THANK YOU! We couldn’t have done any of this without you…and especially without cousin Luke.

“Carry each other’s burdens, and so you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)

 

5 thoughts on “Here we go again.

  1. Thank you for your story. I too desire to help carry this burden with Nelson and Ann-Sophie and little Willard. We love you and pray throughout each day for God to bring healing, encouragement, peace, love and hope.😘🤗❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  2. My prayer group and I are lifting you and your family up in prayer. TLC

  3. Margaret, I’m so very sad to read this news, at the same time I’m encouraged as I read about God’s providence and care for Nelson and his young family. Please know you have already been in my thoughts and prayers on recent weeks and I will continue to lift all of you up while Nelson is in treatment and believe with you for Nelson’s complete healing, dear Lord Jesus we pray and ask your guidance in Nelson’s medical care and your healing hand work both through the doctors and your healing touch upon his lungs, we ask and pray in Jesus name and for His glory and honor. Love you, dear friend!

  4. Hello Margaret. I’m so very sorry to read this about your son, Nelson. I will pray for you and for him for a full recovery.

  5. Hi Margaret! From this North Carolinian, I want to share my gratitude for your long-standing role in Nelson, Ann Sophie, and now little Will’s lives! What a blessing to have you, Luke, and others in your family standing with and alongside during such a a hard time of shock and curiosity. I am a care-giver (Soul Care Provider) that works on behalf of BBC in Tennessee as I have had the very pointed privilege of knowing and journeying with Nelson quarterly since 2016. Since then, it’s been a joy to know Ann Sophie, too, and now- beautiful, handsome Little Will. May God continue to bless and provide to you all as you stand and walk with this beautiful family during this journey of medical care and spiritual transformation. I’ll be praying for you as I do for your first-born and his family!