I’ve been coming to the same stretch of Michigan sand every summer for 64 years. Although the dimensions of the beach have changed each year based on the depth of the lake, one thing hasn’t changed in 100 years: the creek.
As kids we played endlessly in Deer Creek, a shallow, moving mini-river of water flowing mysteriously out of dark woods into the lake. Despite summers when algae grew on its surface or bark turned the water brown, nothing could keep us out of that creek.
If we left the beach and followed it back into the deep woods where it was cool on hot days, we would find treasure beneath the water: minnows, sparkle-rocks and best of all, gray clay. During the carefree days before we hit the double-digit years, we were sure this clay was the key to flawless beauty. Working carefully on ourselves and each other to cover every square inch of exposed skin, we’d emerge from the woods looking like a potter’s wheel had gone berserk. A quick swim, however, would remedy the matter.
In the 1950’s, the creek mosquitoes were so thick we looked like a batch of measle-infected kids. One summer a dozen of us decided to follow the creek as far as we could, knowing it “went forever.” By the time we’d traveled less than a mile, stirring up mosquito nests all along the way, I had so many bites I actually became immune to them. After that, whenever a mosquito bit me, no red bump would develop. I tested it again and again, watching while the bug filled with my blood. The immunity is still good today.
Sometimes wild winds knocked trees down, placing them as perfect bridges. We’d run back and forth, competing to see who could cross the fastest before misstepping and crashing into the water. During moments of rest, we’d straddle the “bridge” and talk for hours, sharing childhood’s secrets. I credit our parents with the gift of letting us roam free. Not everyone is that fortunate.
Last summer Jack and I had a carefree adventure of our own. Since the creek flows through the woods directly behind our cottage, we decided to walk home from the beach in the creek. Between fallen trees, slippery rocks, tangled roots, knee-deep water and low-hanging branches, we barely made it. But I felt like a kid again, and it was worth the effort.
There aren’t many children following the creek these days. Maybe their parents are worrying about accidents and stitches. It’s a long way from the beach to the emergency room. Maybe they’re nervous about who else might be in the woods, although there’s never been an incident. Maybe the kids are all on the internet or playing video games. Whatever the reason, they’re missing out on one of summer’s delights.
My goal as a mom was to be sure our kids appreciated God’s handiwork the way I’d learned to do, motivating me to push/pull them outdoors. Even studying the tiny body of a mosquito teaches of God’s attention to detail and establishes admiration in the heart of a child. Although God fully understands the internet and should get full credit for the World Wide Web, catching minnows in a beach towel or harvesting a bucket of sticky clay beats computer fun any day.
“God saw all that he had made, and it was very good.” (Genesis 1:31)
Happy, care-free thoughts, Margaret!
AMEN!
Wonderful childhood memories. I too played in that same creek for a few more years than you Margaret, only because i am a few years older.
My days growing up in Winona Lake, IN were just like yours. Playing in the woods, building forts, swimming the dirt off. There’s nothing better! Thank you Margaret!!
I love that my kids also experienced the wonder of the creek, thanks to your generosity and their willingness to follow Hans and Klaus anywhere. What wonderful memories. Love you
Very Cool.
Yesterday I was driving home from the store with the kids when I noticed a turtle crossing the road in our neighborhood. I pulled over and got Sky out of her carseat. She almost touched the turtle’s back (a little scary for her) and we talked about its head and legs, which were tucked inside the shell, but poking out a bit. Then we both watched it crawl off into its “home” in the grass. Sky was so excited and talked about the turtle the rest of the day. I’m glad I grew up with a mom who let us spend lots of time outside and always taught us to appreciate the beauty of sunsets, wild and crazy thunderstorms, and the different seasons of the year. I hope I can do the same thing with my kids. Love you!
great blog, Mom. at least the mosquitos don’t have malaria over there. although i think there are more of them.
Amen!! I am so in agreement with you, Marni. I wholeheartedly believe that you can learn so much more in life by experiencing the outdoors. Exploring and doing is ten times healthier than just watching! I am so grateful for a childhood that included lots of adventure. God’s amazing creativity, majesty and especially
His love for us in no more evident than in His creation!!