Today I was rummaging around for one of those snap-shut eyeglass cases to protect sunglasses in a beach bag. Since Nate was always careful with his glasses, I looked in his top dresser drawer, and sure enough, there were five snap-shut cases, just the way he left them. One had reading glasses in it. Two had prescription sunglasses. One was empty, and the fifth surprised me. Inside was a small, shiny pair of scissors.
Although Nate occasionally complained about the noise and debris of his school-age children, he didn’t nitpick his adult kids. There was one exception, however. Over the years he couldn’t hang onto a small pair of scissors he kept in our bathroom medicine cabinet and blamed different kids for its repeated disappearance. Eventually he’d always head for Walgreens to buy another one.
Today I discovered how he’d permanently solved the dilemma. He’d bought a scissors and hidden it in a glasses case, which made me laugh. But why did he want tiny scissors anyway?
In all the years we were married, although I often heard about his scissors disappearing, I never asked what he was cutting. Now I know. Tucked in with the scissors was a tiny comb resembling a Barbie doll accessory. It reminded me of something that happened at a wedding reception three years ago.
A young girl came up to us as we stood chatting with another couple, balancing our appetizer plates. Although we didn’t know her, she asked to take Nate’s picture. Would he mind? His quizzical look made her finish his thought. “…because you look just like Donald Trump!”
As I took his appetizers from him, Nate reluctantly agreed. The young photographer asked him to point his finger as if he was saying “You’re fired!” Nate did, albeit without enthusiasm. The rest of us enjoyed the moment much more than he did.
On the way home, he talked about the girl and her photo. “I hope it doesn’t turn up on the internet.” But my surprise came when he added, “I get that all the time downtown.”
“You get what all the time?” I asked.
“Get taken for Donald Trump.”
And that, I decided, was what the scissors and mini- comb were all about. When his brows got too bushy and the likeness became strong, he’d trim and comb them neatly. He wasn’t interested in being taken for Donald Trump.
Folklore says everybody has a double somewhere. I don’t believe it, because God is creative enough not to have to “ditto” anyone. But the concept of doubles is intriguing. Celebrity look-alike contests abound, and the side-by-side photos do grab our attention. Some people even develop flourishing careers based on looking and acting like someone they’re not.
In reality, each of us is exactly who God made us to be.
And he wants us to be ourselves, but makes one exception. He gives permission, actually urges us, to become look-alikes of somebody: him. Although we don’t need a scissors or a mustache comb to develop the resemblance, we do need something much more difficult to acquire: a non-stop attitude of sacrificial love.
Now… if only that were available at Walgreens.
“Imitate God… in everything you do, because you are his dear children. Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ.” (Ephesians 5:1-2a)
Nate’s much better looking and doesn’t have that comb over.
Nate’s much NICER too!
I agree with the first two comments! Personally, I don’t see the resemblance!
2 Cor 3:18
And so we are transfigured much like the Messiah, our lives gradually becoming brighter and more beautiful as God enters our lives and we become like him. (from THE MESSAGE: The Bible in Contemporary Language.)
Hi Margaret,
Where two or three agree- I’m with the above commenters- no resemblance, unless maybe we could see a picture of Nate with bushy eyebrows! For sure, no comparison at all with the inner man.
Pretty funny post- thanks for the smiles.
Love,
Terry
I have thought since the late 1970’s that Nate looked like Doonald Trump but refrained from mentining it to him because I thought that comparison would not be well received by Nate. I felt this way because Nate’s pleasant personality and his dignified style contrasted greatly with Trump’s flamboyant style and sometimes arrogant personality. I did mention the fact that I knew someone who looked like Trump to several friends and business associates but rarely indicated who it was.I told Elaine about this observation and she also kept quiet about it.
I remember talking with Nate back when I was working on some financing for his apartment complexes about Trump and mentiioning that Trump’s father was Swedish American and was very successful in the apartment business in Brooklyn—-this was about as close as I came to saying,”By the way Nate,….”
An attribute that both Trump and Nate shared was high intelligence and the ability to offer very interesting insights on many topics.
After all these years, I finally know that I was not alone in noting this resemblance.
How clever of Nate to hide the scissors in a glasses case. Another new thing you’ve learned about him, and a whimsical one at that. Blessings to you.
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