When my younger brother was 7 years old, he was helping Mom wrap Christmas gifts when he said, “What can I get for Dad?”
“What he really wants,” Mom said, “is a little peace and quiet. Too bad you can’t give him some of that,” and she laughed.
But on Christmas morning, that’s what Tommy gave, and Dad opened a basketball-sized square box with a scrap of paper in the bottom that said, “In this box is peace and quiet.” It was a huge hit.
Most of us need a bit of P&Q every so often and suffer if we don’t get it. I marveled at my kids when they were in high school, simultaneously managing homework, music, snacking, and instant messaging. Maybe I’m using old age as an excuse, but lately I’m with Dad, appreciating peace and quiet.
Sometimes I worry about the years ahead. What about the physical chaos of old age that seems to keep peace and quiet at bay? Will I be able to think straight, much less produce anything during those years?
When I was a child of about 10, I had a dress made from fabric imprinted with artwork by a woman affectionately known as Grandma Moses. This hard-working farm wife bore 10 children and then began a painting career in her late 70’s, doing her best work in her 90’s. (Recently one of her paintings sold for $1.2 million.) She died at 101. When I worry about losing my powers of concentration, I think of her and hope I can do as well. Scripture tells me I can.
Anna, a temple prophetess, had a thriving ministry of prayer and fasting well into her 90’s (Luke 2), and Sarah, Abraham’s wife, delivered a baby and breastfed him at 91 (Genesis 21). Joshua and Caleb of Old Testament fame were as strong and energetic in their 80’s as in their 30’s (Joshua 14), and Moses retained good vision and high energy up until he died at 120 (Deuteronomy 34). I wonder if any of them said, “Lord, I can’t continue on without an environment of peace and quiet.”
These examples and others are included in the Bible for an important reason: to remind us that God is the one who empowers us to complete whatever task he assigns us to do, regardless of age or of having the perfect atmosphere of peace and quiet. When we’re physically spent or overwhelmed by a must-do job, we’re instructed to “trust in the Lord” for the energy we need (Isaiah 40).
But what about a little peace and quiet along the way? Would that be too much to ask? The truth is, God is more interested in the P&Q of our inner lives than what’s going on around us. Even when turmoil is swirling, he can provide peaceful quietness in the midst of it (at any age) and enough oomph to do whatever needs doing. According to the Bible, old-age success is sure to come if we do one thing first: obey God. And he says if we do that, then we’ll “flourish in old age, remaining vital and green.” (Psalm 92)
“My flesh and my heart may fail; But God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.” (Psalm 73:26)
Hi Margaret,
Thanks for your faithful servings of daily bread to go with my cereal. The spider one- oh boy, he/she would have been a goner courtesy of my shoe. How does the song go- I don’t like spiders and snakes…
I read Billy Graham’s book, Nearing Home. While it is not his best and tended to be a bit scattered, I admired his desire to be used by the Lord even in his widowhood and last stage of life. He still wanted to be an instrument to guide people to make every stage of life fruitful. When he departed from earthly advice and got on point with the gospel, though, you could tell he was in his element, and could almost see those fiery eyes and pointed finger in the words on the pages. Just like Eric Liddle wrote that “God made me fast,” He made Billy an evangelist and Billy has kept the main thing the main thing. I think about what you wrote quite often now that I am approaching retirement and am asking the Lord, “what’s next?”
Love,
Terry
Thanks, Margaret. This is just what I needed to hear today. I so long for peace and quiet and I sometimes feel like an old soul in this body.
This is such a good reminder, Midge, that we all need P & Q….and when we feel like God is silent….is when He’s closest to us….rest in Him…..!
I had to smile when I read Terry Davis’ comment; I used to ask God too…”What next?”…I quit doing that…..especially when I needed P & Q…..when I get bored and feel like i’m not being productive or useful…..I begin to think about it….but find that – just taking it one day at a time…..see what unfolds….is so much more interesting, productive, and….restful. In retrospect….I’m amazed at how much I actually did accomplish, or if I spent the day doing nothing…how much better I felt. I’ve learned to listen to my body…since it’s His house too…..it’s ALWAYS right.
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