Technically, today is my first Mother’s Day. I haven’t met my baby yet, but I think motherhood began for me about 3 months ago when I learned I was pregnant. I found out on February 14th, and it was quite the unexpected Valentine. My fears and worries eased as I gradually shared the news with family and friends and was surrounded by their love.
Tonight my family went out to dinner and enjoyed a Mother’s Day celebration together. Among other things, my mom gave me a pack of diapers, and I realized that I’ve never changed a diaper before. It’s hard not to feel a little defensive when people tell me I have no idea what I’m in for or how difficult this will be for me. My life has already changed quite a bit. I think it’s important for me to look for the good, happy, and beautiful things all around me as I move forward.
My mom has been a tremendous example to me of always focusing on the positive things. Her upbeat attitude is contagious, especially when it comes to my baby. I can’t forget how delighted I felt when I first saw my baby dancing around inside of me or heard that precious heartbeat for the first time. It’s amazing to think about the brand new life I’ll be a part of and the intense connection and joy I’ve experienced.
One year from now on my second Mother’s Day, I’ll probably have experienced some of what others have “warned” me about. But just the thought of being able to hold and kiss my baby has me eagerly awaiting that day and the whole year ahead!
You are so right! It’s the most amazing, wonderful, humbling, God-orchestrated role in the whole world! I’m so glad you are excited. 43 years ago I heard, “it’s a girl”….and thought my heart would break with joy. She has been all that and more. God has been good to me in many ways…but none hold a candle to when He decided I could be a Mom. Today is a day to cherish. Next year will be “all that and more”! Much much love, Tina
Thanks for a great post, Birgitta. The Lord is doing a marvelous work. He is preparing your heart with great love and eagerness for your little one, and He will be there to bless and to guide you all the days of your life.
So thankful for you, your wonderful family, and that sweet little one on the way.
You are surrounded by the most wonderful examples of motherhood: your amazing mother and your aunt, your sister and many cousins! You’ll learn the ropes fast and be a great mom. Your sweet baby will be very blessed to have YOU for their mother!
I agree! Look for the good. Your baby will bring a lot of it into your life. =) Don’t let anyone get you down. Changing diapers is no big deal. You’ll have it figured out the first day. And if you want to practice in advance, you can change Autumn and Micah when we come in July. Ha ha! Love you Gitta!
The joy of a child far outweighs the workload of a child and you have NOTHING to fear in regards to learning what to do. I have changed more diapers than I could ever have imagined and each one I soon forget when it has been done! For me, becoming a Dad felt like being reborn to a life so much fuller than I could have ever expected. We are really looking forward to seeing your little guy/gal when they have hatched!
Becoming a mother is the closest thing to “holy” I have ever experienced. Enjoy this gift.
Birgitta, so glad God has given you your heart’s desire, a baby girl!:) I still remember long ago when your mom told me she enjoyed the diapering stage because of the multiple opportunities throughout the day for eye contact with this precious one. Such a valuable perspective! You have one of the best role models ever! Now, can you match the hairbows!:):):) Girls are so much fun!!!!!!!!!! Much, much love! Sue