Surgery at Midnight

I’m no nurse, but last night I got to assist in a surgical procedure that began at 11:50 pm when my cell phone rang. It was Louisa, calling from downstairs. “Mom! I found a tick in my leg, and it’s sucking my blood!”

“I’ll be right down,” I said, leaving the computer and heading for the stairs. Sure enough, a small but industrious tick had chewed its way so deep into her skin its head wasn’t visible at all.

“We can’t just pull it out,” she said. “If the head detaches and stays under my skin, it’ll just keep sucking!”

Tick surgeryAs she stood on one leg with the other one propped up, I ran for my glasses, a tweezers, a paper napkin, and the salt shaker. “I’ve heard that salt kills ‘em,” I said. But after 10 minutes of stinging salt poultices on Louisa’s open wound, the tick was still flailing all 6 limbs, continuing to burrow deeper into my daughter.

“What about burning him?” Louisa said. “I’ve heard that works.” But in discussing how to accomplish that without burning her leg, we decided to Google for other suggestions.

Every site we checked favored a slow, steady pull with tweezers. “Get a tweezer-grip as close to the tick’s head as possible; then be careful not to twist, angle, turn, or do anything but pull it straight out.”

In order to be successful, we had to follow those instructions exactly.

The same thing holds true in the parts of our lives unrelated to tick removal. It’s especially important in our relationship with God and the instructions he gives us. As a matter of fact, he tells us that if we show disdain for his instruction, we’re fools. (Proverbs 1:7)

God instructs us on how to live well. By that I don’t mean how to become well-off financially but rather how to live with a rich supernatural peace to our core, no matter what life dishes out. Once we’ve trusted God with our lives, our very next thought ought to be, “What are your instructions for me, so I can be at my best?”

Scripture is full of them, and interestingly, God’s instruction is often paired with his correction. “Poverty and shame come to those who don’t care about instruction; honor belongs to those who heed correction.” (Proverbs 13:18)

That tells us we all need instruction and also gives the reason; right after we “get educated,” we’ll realize we need God’s correction, too. Once we catch onto this, our lives will operate like a smooth-running piston: instruction – correction – instruction – correction – instruction – correction, always moving closer to righteousness.

The culpritLast night, after Louisa and I learned exactly what to do about her tick, she followed instructions precisely, and sure enough. After a strong, straight, steady pull, out he came…. head and all.

“All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for…. correction [and] instruction in righteousness.” (2 Timothy 3:16)

 

Who knows?

Skylar, Autumn, MicahHaving long-distance relatives isn’t ideal, since our together-time has to be minimal. But this week I’m pleased to be under the same roof with 6 of our out-of-town relatives: daughter Linnea, her husband Adam, Skylar, Micah, Autumn, and their baby brother who’s riding along in his mommy’s tummy. On our next visit, we’ll get to see and hold him, too.

When Nate was still with us, two of our grands had already been born, Skylar in Florida and Nicholas in England. But when he died, those two were still just babies, 15 and 10 months respectively. Nate never got the chance to watch them grow and change or to meet the other 6 (almost 7) that followed.

I consider it a huge blessing to have known them for as long as I have, even though the oldest is only five. But we can carry on conversations, play games, read together, share stories, bake cookies, and go places. Nate has missed out on all of it.

Or has he?

What’s the probability that he knows his 7 additional grands? Randy Alcorn wrote a book (based solely on Scripture) entitled HEAVEN. He makes a powerful case for Nate’s awareness of his grandchildren, citing passages in both the Old and New Testaments to substantiate that those in heaven know what’s transpiring on earth.

The girlsFor example, based on Revelation 19 he writes, “Heaven’s inhabitants are shown praising God for specific events of judgment that have just taken place on Earth. The saints in Heaven are clearly observing what is happening on Earth. Those on Earth may be ignorant of events in Heaven, but those in Heaven are not ignorant of events on Earth, at least some of these events.” (p. 24)

Another passage in Luke 15 refers to rejoicing that goes on “in the presence of God’s angels when even one sinner repents.” Alcorn writes, “Notice this Scripture does not speak of rejoicing by the angels but in the presence of angels. I believe it logically includes not only God but the saints in Heaven… If they rejoice over conversions happening on Earth, then obviously they must be aware of what’s happening on Earth… down to the details of specific individuals coming to faith in Christ.” (p. 25)

One boyAlcorn cites many other verses on which he bases his conclusions, making a strong case for heavenly minds being far superior to what we now have on Earth. The bottom line, if I believe Scripture, is that Nate does know all of his grands and hasn’t missed a thing. Theologians might debate that into the ground, but as one half of a grandma/grandpa pair, I want to believe it.

As we enjoy each other during these two weeks together in earthly Michigan, I like to think Nate will be having just as much fun watching from his heavenly vantage point.

“This is the plan: At the right time [God] will bring everything together under the authority of Christ – everything in heaven and on earth.” (Ephesians 1:10)

September 26, 2013

BrookeThroughout the year 2010, I blogged about each of my 7 children on their birthdays. That included my 2 in-law children (children-in-love), but one was missing. That’s because Brooke hadn’t yet joined our family. As a matter of fact, 2010 was the year she and Klaus first met, and on June 22 of this year, she became a Nyman.

To her credit, she hasn’t been intimidated by her new husband’s large family but has joined our ranks with enthusiasm. Maybe that’s because she lives all of life enthusiastically. I love her exuberance and the fact that it bubbles out of a heart committed to Christ.

Brooke-made jewelry

 

Brooke has strong creative genes that show through in her interior decorating, her cooking, her jewelry (left), her wardrobe, and her passion for antique-ing. She can turn almost anything into a work of art and is not above “dumpster diving” for her supplies, most recently orange crates for book shelves. She also sells her creations at flea markets, craft fairs, and in boutiques.

A champion at bargain-hunting, she loves a “rare find” and enjoys stretching a dollar. Surely her careful spending will be a gift to her marriage and family for the rest of their lives.

I fully believe God brings marriage partners together in ever-unique ways in answer to the prayers of both the man and the woman. And if their parents are also praying for the Lord’s choices, how can they miss? Hearing the origins of these love stories is fascinating, especially hunting for God in the details.

Although Brooke and Klaus were raised in towns 110 miles apart, our move to Michigan in 2009 and Klaus’ arrival in early 2010 turned out to be pivot points in bringing the two of them together. I’ll never forget the excited text I received while visiting daughter Linnea and family in Florida, the day after Klaus met Brooke. “What do you think about me dating a 19 year old?” Since he was 29 at the time, it was a good question.

I responded by asking if she was a Christian, and when he said, “Yup!” I figured, why not?

Brooke and KlausThree years later, the two of them are having fun feathering their nest and settling into married life. And since we live less than a mile apart, I get to see a great deal of them.

One of Brooke and Klaus’ favorite Scripture passages is Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.”

They both trusted the Lord to direct their paths to each other, and as the verse says, if they continue to depend on his understanding over their own, he will continue showing them which paths to take.

Brooke, we’re so glad you’re finally on the family birthday roster. HAPPY BIRTHDAY to you!

“Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust him, and he will help you.” (Psalm 37:5)