Careful Watching

This afternoon I watched 5 young children race down the dune and into Lake Michigan’s gentle waves without a moment’s hesitation or a backward glance. Although they seemed to be in the 6-8 year range, no adult was following. No one was shouting, “Wait till I get there!”

Watching them cavort in chin-deep water, I was reminded of my own childhood and similar unsupervised water play at the same beach. When Mary and I grew up and had children ourselves, they also splashed freely there from sun-up to sun-down.

Whenever we had young babies, we’d arrive at the beach on the “early shift” so that by mid-afternoon our little ones could be back home for naps. If Mom was at the cottage too, she was always willing to listen for the nappers so Mary and I could head back to the waterfront alone.

One summer afternoon in 1975, while our little ones were sleeping with their grandma in charge, Mary and I went back to the beach to luxuriate in some time without any children. All of a sudden Mary said, “Hey… Look down the beach. Isn’t that Nelson and Julia wading into the water?”

Nelson and Julia

Sure enough, the 2 two-year-olds we’d put to bed not long before were wading into the water dressed in their cloth diapers and rubber pants. We ran down and collected them, then headed home to get the story from Mom.

“They weren’t tired,” she said, “and wanted to go back to the beach. So I pointed them in the right direction and hoped they’d find you.”

This meant walking 5 blocks (and making two correct turns), climbing a big dune (paved), and walking down 100 concrete steps to the sand where we were sitting amidst many others. Somehow these little ones did that, though it was unsettling watching them walk into the water unaccompanied.

Steps

But then again, it was typical Mom. When we asked if she’d been worried they might not make it, she said, “Oh, but they did.”

This grandma was a risk-taker. She’d sent them off “hoping” they’d reach the beach and find us, but if not, “hoping” another mother would step in and help. And behind all of that shaky logic, she believed Julia and Nelson had guardian angels watching over them.

God is not a risk-taker like Mom was. He doesn’t have to be, because he’s omniscient. He’s 100% capable of watching over children because his future knowledge is complete. Mom “hoped” everything would work out, but she wasn’t sure. God, on the other hand, is always sure. And he has legions of angels to do his bidding.

As for that little gang of young swimmers I saw today, I watched for quite a while. Somewhere an adult was probably “hoping” they’d be OK at the beach, and amazingly, it all worked out fine.

“Be careful that you never despise a single one of these little ones — for I tell you that they have angels who see my Father’s face continually in Heaven.”  (Matthew 18:10)

Explosions

FireworksThree days ago on the 1st, looking toward the 4th of July, Louisa and I were out walking Jack late at night. As we passed the turn toward the beach, a big explosion sounded, not like traditional fireworks, but hole-in-the-ground big. Like dynamite.

It took me back to the days when our 4 sons were young and still living at home. Like most boys, they loved motors, weapons, and fire. Closely linked with fire were fireworks, and over the years they lit more than their share. Thankfully they reached adulthood intact, but I do remember a time when they caused enough neighborhood commotion with their explosions to bring the police to our house.

Apparently not much has changed with today’s boys, and as Weezi and I walked on, a police car sped past us, headed toward the beach. No doubt as they arrived, several youngsters were rapidly on the run.

Police departments have always winked at fireworks being exploded on the 4th of July, even in states where they’re illegal. Here in Michigan the rule has been that they’re “ok” on July 3, 4, and 5, but “not ok” any other days, a nice mix of grace and law. Still, there have been those who can’t quite comply, i.e. explosions on the 1st of July and the police pursuit that resulted.

If any society is to function well, laws and penalties have to be part of it. In the Bible we see the same thing, God setting up parameters but leaving it up to us to stay within them.

The most difficult of his rules involve invisible parameters. For example, Scripture says, “Put love of God ahead of love for anything or anyone else.” We might live lives that look like that, but what’s happening on the inside? That part is a lot harder.

We think, “Well, I’m doing pretty good at the Christian life. Besides, nobody’s perfect.” That’s like setting off explosions on July 1st. Close, but not quite right. The upshot finds us outside of God’s parameters and possibly even on the run the way the beach exploders probably were. Breaking the rules is sometimes fun, but paying the consequences never is.

The good news is that God does heart checks. It matters whether or not we’re making an effort to comply with him or working to dodge his rules. He knows we can’t be perfect, but that doesn’t coax him to lower his high standards, and he hopes we’ll stretch toward them. Doing so requires his help, though, and when we ask him for it, he’s pleased to give it. It also brings us out from under the impossible pressure of trying to be perfect and puts us under God’s generous grace where he chooses to give it.

Salvation itself is the best example of this, a perfect God requiring perfection from us but willingly accepting Christ’s perfection instead of ours. This means we can run toward him and not away from him, even if we break the rules. Maybe especially then.

And that’s an explosion of grace that should bring us all running.

“All are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.” (Romans 3:24)

Message in the Sand

Those of us who’ve invited Jesus to take charge of our lives nod in assent when we hear, “He’s always with you.”

We’ve memorized many of the “full circle verses” (Seeing the Future) and we move into each new day knowing he’s present with us in his Spirit, all of us at the same time. It’s our miraculous reality, although we aren’t always thinking about it. Contrary to our sometimes non-thoughts of him, Jesus never stops thinking about us. And once in a while he gets creative trying to tug us back to an awareness of him.

Jesus loves U

Recently a bunch of us arrived at the beach to find Jesus had beat us there. Etched in the sand were the words, “Jesus [heart] U” in letters bigger than we were. The artist was long gone, so we set up camp right next to these true words. The simple sign was a good reminder:

  • to focus on Jesus more
  • to actively remember that he’s always with us
  • to realize many other people believe in him, too.

When I see something like that beach message, I automatically think, “There’s another child of God, another believer.” Even though I didn’t know who had made the sign, I felt naturally drawn to this other person who had had Jesus so up-front on his/her mind.

Christians come in all sizes, shapes, colors and from any time period, country, or church. Sometimes we let insignificant things get in the way of relationships with them, and I often remember what Pastor Warren Wiersbe used to say: “When we get to heaven, we might be surprised at who’s there.” In other words, God judges based on people’s hearts, while the rest of us look mostly at their performance.

A warm sock

One cold day last winter when I pulled on a toasty warm sock, something inside of it poked me like a pin. When I took it off, I turned it inside out to see what it was (a pine needle from the Christmas tree). God looks at us in a similar way, from the inside out. After he sees what’s there, he makes his next move toward us accordingly.

My guess is that one of the things he looks for when he’s got us inside out is whether or not we’re tuned in to him at any given time. Are we looking in his direction? Are we conscious of his close presence? Is the wonder of being “with him” appreciated or disregarded? Are we mindful of him only on the days when we feel needy, or are we needful of him daily?

I’m thankful for the sign in the sand and the person who made it. Maybe a good idea would be to make a sign of my own the next time I’m at the beach, something like, “Your thoughts about [us] outnumber the grains of sand.” (Psalm 139:17-18)

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Jesus said, “I am with you always, to the end of the age.” (Matthew 28:20)