Angelic Sculpture

Snow angels are made in several ways, and last week, after a good blizzard, we finally got to make the first ones of the season. Jack has his own angel-making method, throwing himself into the snow on his back, wriggling and squirming upsidedown. A child uses other ideas. She lies flat on her back, arcing arms and legs, then trying to stand up without making a boot-print on her angel. As for me, I like the idea of building a snowman-angel. And a true artist can carve an angel from a giant brick of snow.

The morning the blizzard came, while brushing my teeth I was wondering how much shoveling I’d have to do and how much time it would take. Then I heard the melodic sounds of a snow blower, and before I could even rinse my mouth out, I spotted my next-door-neighbor at work on my driveway.

Bob always has a positive word for everyone, and he let me know, once I got outside, that he thought the storm was beautiful. More impressive to me, though, was his unflagging determination to help the widow next door. He and his wife Linda have come to my rescue more than once, and that morning it happened again.

For the rest of that day, every time I looked outside, seeing Bob’s snow blowing lines on my driveway was a fresh blessing. Later, while thanking God for these neighbors, the Lord reminded me of the way Nate and I originally ended up next door to them.

We’d been casually looking in the area for several years, having outgrown the tiny summer cottage my sister and I shared with our spouses and 14 children. We knew we needed a second house but were frustrated with the unavailability of cottages in our price bracket. When a house came on the market at the right price, the location, size or condition wasn’t right.

Then one day, at the end of another unsuccessful hunt, the realtor said, “I heard a rumor another house was about to come on the market. Nothing’s official, and we don’t have the key yet, but let me make a call.”

That turned out to be the one. And when Nate and I bought it in 2000, we envisioned decades of family use and an eventual retirement for the two of us. Neither of us expected widowhood, but of course God knew it was coming and was preparing an optimum setting. The unlikely timing of the house “about to” come on the market with all the right features was the beginning, but most significant was his placing us next to our compassionate neighbors.

Then, when “we” turned into “just me,” those two neighbors turned into angels.

And now I know the prettiest of all angelic snow sculptures is made by the parallel lines of a snow blower.

“Whoever brings blessing will be enriched.” (Proverbs 11:25)

 

Heavy Hats

Amy Grant sings a song entitled “Hats” in which she describes the harried life of a young mom trying to be all her husband wants her to be. She sings about expending herself in the roles of homemaker, wife, lover, mother, cook, date-night partner, and career woman.

She also references running like crazy through each day and working through the night hounded by a phone that never stops ringing. Half way through the song she sings, “How do I manage to hold onto my sanity?”

While tussling with the truth that she can’t wear all the hats her commitments require, she finally asks her husband, “Can I really be the girl you think you see in me?”

That’s a good question for each of us. “Am I loaded down with too many hats because I’m trying to project an image that’s not really me?”

Amy quotes Scripture in her intense song: “The spirit is willing but the flesh is weak,” which is precisely the problem. We want to be someone we can’t possibly be. Sadly, knowing we can’t do it doesn’t stop us from continually trying.

Nate used to say he had difficulty “switching hats” from downtown lawyer to suburban father. Although he had a 40 minute train commute during which he could have worked at changing his hats, what usually happened was he ended up wearing them both, along with several others.

Amy would have nodded with understanding. About her own life she sings, “This may be a dream come true, but when it all comes down, it’s an awful lot to do.” And that’s true for most people in our bustling society. On this second day of a brand new year, though, we can ask, “Which hats does God want me to wear in 2012? And which should I work to remove?”

Tina, a blog commenter, left a perceptive prayer on this site one year ago. It embodies our never-ending human struggle between doing and being: ”Lord, we want your will, whether we want it or not.”

As children of God, we say we’re submitted to his choices but then pull ourselves out from under his leadership to put on an extra hat. With a heavier load, then, we echo Amy: “Why do I have to wear so many things on my head?”

The answer is, “You don’t.”

Like everything else in life, we need to prioritize:

  • The Christian hat
  • The spousal hat
  • The parenting hat
  • The work hat
  • The ministry hat
  • All other hats

After the first few, we can freely say, “Do I have to wear the rest?”

Not that hat removal is without complications. But eliminating unnecessary hats will, as Amy says, allow us to keep our sanity. We might even find time to sing a brand new tune.

“See, the former things have taken place, and new things I declare; Sing to the Lord a new song, his praise from the ends of the earth.” (Psalm 42:9a,10a)

 

Banquet on New Year’s Day

Back in 1961 when I first got my driver’s license, one of the places I couldn’t wait to drive to was McDonald’s. My friends and I loved their greasy hamburgers ($.25) and fries ($.10), and going someplace our parents didn’t like held a certain charm. (“Eat in the car?” they’d say. “Unthinkable!”) But there was no place we’d rather dine, no menu more delicious.

Those Golden Arches were a welcome site to me 50 years ago and still are today. Much has changed about McDonald’s, but we can always count on the same tasty burgers and fries. No matter where the familiar arches appear, we won’t be disappointed, because we know what they represent.

Today is the first day of a new year, and just like the Golden Arches let us know what’s beneath them, I’ve chosen an identifying banner to arch over my 2012, something I’ll be asking God to make part of my year as sure as burgers and fries are part of McDonalds.

I’ve decided on Isaiah 30:15: ”In quietness and trust is your strength.”  God has said, “In the next 366 days (leap year), when your spirit gets riled, quiet it down. Trust me for the results of your year. Have confidence that I can expertly move you through whatever comes your way.”

The Bible is chuck full of practical promises like that, available for each of our 2012s. We can select or reject what God offers, but he never forces us to take advantage of the perks of being in his family. He simply lays them out like a beautifully prepared banquet, then lets us fill our plates as we wish. Or, we can leave the banquet table hungry.

My “golden arch” passage for 2012 also explains the possible results of ignoring God’s promises:

This is what the Sovereign Lord, the Holy One of Israel, says: “In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength, but you would have none of it. You said, ‘No, we will flee on horses.’ You said, ‘We will ride off on swift horses.’ Therefore your pursuers will be swift! (Isaiah 30:15,16)

In other words, if you want to trust your “swift horses” rather than Me, you’ll find your enemies on horses that are swifter yet!

We might think our ideas of how to best manage the events of 2012 are superior to God’s, but from this Scripture we learn that isn’t true. His plans are always better than ours and are always made for our good, even when circumstances look otherwise. But that’s where the elements of quietness and trust come in as we wait on him.

I’m excited about “eating” a promise from God’s New Year’s banquet table, and I don’t doubt it’ll be more scrumptious than even a McDonald’s burger and fries.

“Moses built an altar and called it The Lord is my Banner.” (Exodus 17:15)