This blog site came into existence during the summer of 2009, a few weeks before we learned of my husband Nate’s pancreatic cancer.
We were grateful to have a cyber-place already established where friends and family could be updated during his six weeks of illness.
It would have been impossible to tend to all the emails, texts, and calls wanting to know how he was doing.
Seven years later, this same blog came in handy once again for the same purpose. My sister Mary had contracted cancer, and we used it as a way to keep people current on how she was coping.
And now we find ourselves at the same place again, this time for the firstborn of our seven children, Nelson. It was less than two weeks ago that we learned why he had been feeling bad: He, too, had cancer.
Nelson has been robust and healthy throughout his 49 years. He ran marathons, swam a mile each day, and ran multiple miles with joy. He had a physical job with Youth With A Mission in Kona, Hawaii, and was on the go daily…and sometimes well into the night.
That is, until now.
Ten days ago, Nelson, with his wife Ann Sophie and their baby Will, were happily living and working in Kona, Hawaii on the Big Island. They were shepherding young people through a YWAM work program coupled with spiritual guidance that changed their lives forever.
We had plans to be together this July during their vacation time, but God put us together sooner than expected. In just a few days, here’s what has happened:
- Nelson, Ann Sophie and little Will, 10 weeks old, flew to Minneapolis, Minnesota to spend some time at cousin Luke’s home there, learning about the Mayo Clinic.
- Nelson became a patient at the Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN.
- Nelson, Ann Sophie, Will and I rented an apartment together that is only 6 minutes from Mayo’s.
- A group of hard working, cheerful people came together to move us in, donating furniture to our empty apartment. (More on this tomorrow.)
- In our first three days, Nelson has seen five different specialized doctors who each took a great deal of time with us. And he’s seen multiple nurses and imaging techs during the process of testing and fact-gathering about his cancer. The goal is to determine where the cancer began and thus what the treatment should be. We will know those things by early next week.
So…together we hope to write this daily blog, letting people know how Nelson and his young family are doing. We’re grateful they have so many friends who’ve already shown their love in both tangible and intangible ways. To all of you, we say a resounding THANK YOU! We couldn’t have done any of this without you…and especially without cousin Luke.
“Carry each other’s burdens, and so you will fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)
