Adventureland

A year ago when I was visiting my Florida family, the grandchildren and I went on several little-kid adventures. Two blocks from their home was a multiple-acre property with a dilapidated old barn on it, along with scattered debris that all belonged in the trash but fascinated the children: a discarded tire, a deflated Mylar balloon and it’s dirty ribbon, a cracked bowl, a broken brick, etc.

We fantasized about each item and about the barn. We named the terrain as we walked along: Midgee Mountain (small hill), Skylar Pathway, Micah Rock Pit – our own Adventureland. It was the kind of fun kids hope goes on forever, a simple activity they wanted to repeat again and again.

Open field

But between then and now, the landscape has changed. Giant trees have been removed, the barn bulldozed away, and the land leveled. All the “treasures” are gone, making it just an empty, open field with no personality at all. But we went to Adventureland anyway.

This time, though, the kids did spot one exciting find: a yellow road sign that said, DEAD END. I told them that if I’d have come across it when I was young, I’d have taken it home and hung it on my bedroom wall. Linnea quickly discouraged such a possibility, but I had a twinge of wishing it would fit into my suitcase.

Dead EndIt’s funny how the passing of time brings new trends and fads. During my college years, I had a number of road signs in my room, each with its own unique story of acquisition. All my friends admired them. But these days, that kind of thing seems silly. Times have changed.

Thankfully, some things never change — like the things God puts into place. Take character qualities, for example: being kind, loyal, gentle, fair, and so many others. These never go out of style. That’s because they’re God’s ideas for how we should behave. He’s programmed all of us to be capable of them and to respond positively to others who demonstrate them toward us.

Jesus modeled every positive character trait known to man as he dealt with the people of his day. And when we’re willing to try, it brings satisfaction to him and to those around us, and even to ourselves. It’s not always easy to be cheerful, honest, grateful, dutiful, polite, and lots more, but even a little can mean a lot. Best of all, Scripture says that if we practice even one good character trait, it’ll lead to another… and another.

As for the road sign, maybe it’ll come into a new life with the owners of our old Adventureland.

“Make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue, and virtue with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with steadfastness, and steadfastness with godliness, and godliness with brotherly affection, and brotherly affection with love.” (2 Peter 1:5-7)

Praising with Mary

Blood work done on March 10th brought the good news that my cancer is growing only slowly. The bottom line remains the same, but this report was the best we could hope for. And your prayers have a lot to do with it! Thank you!

A Powerful Punch

This week I’ve been re-immersed in the world of the young, visiting daughter Linnea’s family in Florida. That includes husband Adam and 4 young ‘uns: Skylar (6), Micah (5), Autumn (3), and Isaac (1).

Long-distance grandparenting has considerable limitations, and when I’m invited to join them day-to-day for a while, getting caught up with each one is a joyful process. Though this family traveled to see me in Michigan multiple times in 2014, it’s been a whole year since I’ve been to their home.

4 Florida grands

My 4 Florida grands are changing faster than I can keep up with. Take their home schooling, for example. This morning I audited their mommy’s history lesson at the dining table and learned all kinds of new things about World War II, Hitler, Stalin, the United Nations, the Cold War, Gandhi, India’s independence, the establishing of the Jewish State, Communism, Mao, and China. And that was all before lunch.

A thirst for knowledge is a wonderful thing, and watching children learn is a delight. But the day’s highlight for me came after school was all over. Actually, it was during a spat between Skylar and Micah. They were bickering about nothing in particular, shouting over each other, when suddenly Skylar said, “Micah! Harsh words make tempers flare!”

Her statement was right out of the Bible,* and I was pleased to hear her recite a previously-memorized verse. More than that, though, was the thrill of knowing she could apply it to everyday life. Linnea, preparing dinner nearby, added the first half of the same verse: “Yes, and a ‘gentle answer turns away wrath’.” Immediately their squabble ended, much like a balloon that’s been poked by a pin.

It reminded me of a scriptural comment about the effect of Jesus’ words on his listeners. “People were amazed at his teaching, for he spoke with authority.”  (Luke 4:32) Though the Bible tells us he was an ordinary-looking man,** his hearers were amazed that his words packed such a powerful punch.

The Lord’s words still have that same punch, and I believe I saw it at work during Skylar and Micah’s argument. Though children may not be aware of it, when they quote the Bible to each other sincerely, they’re bringing supernatural power to bear on whatever’s going on at the time.

CooperatingNot that every childhood argument will immediately stop when a verse is spoken, but it very well might be. God honors his Word and says it’s influential when verbalized.*** And when a child has been taught to respect and honor what he says, surely the impact is all the greater.

Amazed, the people exclaimed, “What authority and power this man’s words possess!”  (Luke 4:36)

* Proverbs 15:1        **Isaiah 53:1-2         *** Romans 10:16-17 &  Revelation 1:3

A Mentor’s Prayer Life

Devotional-journal, 3In 2012, my California cousins gifted me with something precious from their mom, my Aunt Joyce. It was a green leather book with her name embossed on the front. At first I didn’t recognize it, but inside I saw my own writing, a birthday gift to my aunt on her 88th. It was a devotional journal, and after each day’s entry, there was space for written reflections. Aunt Joyce had recorded her thoughts and prayers, and in this gift I was given a glimpse of how a wise mentor talks to God.

In reading what she wrote, I was impacted by her honesty before her Lord and am wondering if you readers might be impacted, too. Below are quotes from her journal, plucked with care so as not to reveal her secrets but answering the question, “What does a mentor’s prayer life look like?”

  • Oh God, my trust is in you. I ask for deliverance from my feelings.
  • Lord, order my conduct, and take my burdens.
  • Remove my fear and anxiety. You said you would. I depend on that. Keep my mind stayed on Thee.
  • Rejoice exceedingly, Joyce!
  • God, if it’s not too late, I commit my cause to you. Help me do your way and will.
  • “…that you may be blameless in the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Wow! Me?
  • Lord, keep my attention on your side, not mine.
  • Lord, I need to be motivated by your love. I ask this by your Spirit. Thank you, right now.
  • Lord, open my eyes to see my enemy, which equals my captivity. Give me your equipment for fighting against captivity to sin. I want to conquer sin in my thoughts, attitudes, and actions.
  • I feel like I’m going through your refiner’s fire to purify my wickedness. I’ve had anger, stress, and frustration when I should have had hope!
  • Thank you for my Edward [husband of 62 years then]. I did not have sense enough myself to choose such quality.
  • God’s grace is like a sandwich. The top of the bun is what I deserve from Him. The filling is God’s grace. The bottom is what I receive from Him… life eternal.
  • I thank God for blessing received with no sorrow added.
  • I need someone greater, wiser, stronger and more powerful than I am. In Him I have everything.
  • Often God’s way up is down, but He’s there with us, too.
  • Aunt Joyce's prayers, 3I became a new being today, started all over – forgiven, cleansed, powered by Him through the Holy Spirit. Praise to the Almighty, over and over! I’m so grateful.
  • To know Him is to love Him. I love you, Lord, and want to know you more.
  • I’m starting to understand what grace is, and what my comfort can be.
  • Stress and suffering shows me so clearly how very much I need Him, how hopeless and helpless I am without Him. I surrender all, dear Jesus, to you.

One of Aunt Joyce’s favorite verses, written out in her journal, is: “The Lord will perfect what concerns me.” (Psalm 138:8)