Thank you, Drew.

Today when Drew came over, it was to finish the last couple of things on my home improvement list. I’ve loved his daily cheerful arrival and have enjoyed listening to him sing along with the country music he loves. (To Drew’s credit, he’s learned to appreciate Michael Buble’, too.) I’ll miss him!

One of his last endeavors was to finish a bit of stone artwork the two of us came up with together. It’s a door mat made of beach stones set in front of our “door to nowhere” (which will one day lead to an outdoor deck). Drew filled the mat space with mortar, and I filled it with my favorite stones. After the mortar dried he sealed it, and we’ll all be stepping on it for years to come.

The mat has a special feature, a larger rock set amongst the smaller ones with my favorite “footsteps” Scripture on it. Drew’s cousin offered to try his laser etching machine on carving the verse directly into a rock, which turned out to be a tricky task, but it turned out great.

Some people think I have rocks in my head for all the beach stones at my house. They’re glued around picture and mirror frames, candles and clocks. My sister’s Scripture rocks are on my desk, and I have multi-colored rocks in a decorative bowl. That doesn’t count the 4 long shelves of rocks stored in my basement.

And God made them all. Since he frequently refers to himself as The Rock, I figure it’s ok.

Rocks factor into quite a few Bible stories, too. The patriarchs often stacked stones to make an altar upon which to make a sacrifice to God after something spectacular had happened. Later God instructed Joshua to stack 12 stones in the middle of the Jordan River as tens of thousands of people passed through it on dry land (much like the Red Sea). God says those 12 stones are still there today. (Joshua 4:9)

He also told them to stack 12 stones at their very first campsite in the Promised Land, telling the people that when their children asked about their significance, they were to tell the story of God drying up the Jordan for them to cross over, a picture of his power.

Even the priests put something called “stones of remembrance” on the shoulder straps of their apron-like ephods. Then as they entered the temple to seek forgiveness of sins, the 12 tribes were represented, their names engraved on the stones.

David appreciated rocks, too, killing a giant with one carefully selected smooth stone. And Jacob had his head on a rock-pillow the night he dreamed of the ladder to heaven.

My humble door mat won’t have as grand a use as any of these biblical examples, but everyone who walks on it will be reminded that God can keep us from anything that threatens to ruin us, if we’ll just trust our footsteps to him. (Psalm 119:133)

Thank you, Drew.

There is “a time to gather stones together.” (Ecclesiastes 3:5)

Rock Solid

The Bible has some appealing things to say about God steering our steps. This, of course, is a spectacular life-perk, since God’s future-vision is always 20/20.

A while ago I gathered verses together that spoke of this phenomenon and typed them up. Because I’ve made so many missteps, focusing on God’s lead is important to me. I pondered how I might keep these written promises in the forefront of my mind and asked God if he had any ideas.

He did:

“Before Drew lays down your tile,” he said, “write My promises on the floor. You’ll be standing on them every time you step on that slate, and I’ll remind you of what’s written beneath it.”

Drew was scheduled to start slathering mortar the next morning, so as usual, God’s timing was perfect. I magic-markered my favorite passages on the floor, claiming each word as my own. When Drew came to those verses, he balked at smearing his dark gray goop over them. Looking up at me, trowel in hand, he said, “But nobody’ll see them.”

“God sees them,” I said, “and has already activated them for me, and I’ve seen them and won’t forget they’re there.” And so he covered them.

When I was growing up at Moody Church, we frequently sang a song called “Standing on the Promises.” One of its verses goes like this:

Standing on the promises that cannot fail
When the howling storms of doubt and fear assail.
By the living Word of God I shall prevail,
Standing on the promises of God.

Each time I step in, over, or on that tile, I’m standing on God’s rock-solid promises made directly to me (and you, if you claim them).

One of those verses written under the tile is Psalm 119:133. “Establish my footsteps in your Word, and do not let any iniquity have dominion over me.” This includes the iniquity of running ahead of God’s lead, stepping left or right off his chosen path for me, or lagging so far behind I’m being disobedient.

I want to move when he says move and sidestep obstacles he labels as such. A life of doing this might not be flashy on the outside, but as I pace along putting my feet into God’s prescribed footsteps, it’ll feel awfully good on the inside.

The floor is finished now, a stunning sight to my stone-appreciating eyes. This particular batch of slate was cut from a cliff in India, no two tiles alike. Since the colors vary widely, Drew put them down artistically, a greenish one here, tan there, navy across the room. The result is a floor tapestry of rock reminding me of The Rock.

So from now on it’s going to be footsteps… on rocks… on rock-solid promises… that cannot fail.

“The Lord says: ‘Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls’.” (Jeremiah 6:16)

Getting Through

My builder (and nephew-in-law) Drew is closing in on the end of our 10 week project. On our tag list today was a chore he definitely didn’t have to do but kindly acquiesced to: hanging a heavy, round mirror 40 inches in diameter. Putting it on the hook wasn’t the problem. It was where that hook was located, 16 feet above the floor.

In order to reach it, Drew had to climb onto the top step of a six foot ladder and perch there without support while holding the heavy mirror, which he had to lift high. If the ladder wiggled or he made a misstep, he’d surely fall. And if he did, he’d hit a square-edged newel post far below, tumbling down the steps to the basement, probably with the mirror shattering over him.

But the fearless Drew said, “Oh, I’ve had worse falls than that. Don’t worry.”

Worrying more, I said, “But Dad told us there’s never a good reason to stand on the top step of a ladder.” I was half hoping to stop him, but half hoping he’d hang my mirror anyway.

Klaus, his girlfriend Brooke and I held our breath as Drew climbed the ladder, as if an audience might prevent an accident. Drew successfully placed the mirror’s back-wire over the wall hook, and as we all admired his work, suddenly the 60 year old wire snapped, and the mirror careened down the wall.

Drew’s lightning instinct, even while on the top step, was to lift his knee (so now he’s teetering on one leg) and pin the falling mirror to the wall with his foot as it raced toward a narrow shelf half way down the wall.

Brooke and I gasped, envisioning Drew and the mirror both going overboard. Klaus leaped forward to help. But as Drew remained focused on saving the mirror, he also remained on the ladder.

The heavy mirror made a major dent in the shelf, despite Drew’s slowing its descent, but thankfully we had wood filler, sand paper and paint handy. After a trip to the store for new braided wire, we restrung it, and Drew repeated his risky maneuver (thus the photo).

How different our day would have been, had we needed 911.

But isn’t that true of any day? Only God knows what 24 hours will bring, which is why it’s good to turn over those hours to him every morning. Then, no matter what happens, we know God allowed it, and because of that, he’ll get us through it.

This web site is called “Getting Through This” because no one is exempt from troubles, and all of us have things to get through. I’ve learned the extent to which God will go in accomplishing this for us as I’ve gotten through the last 19 months without Nate. And I have confidence if Drew had fallen today, God would have brought him through that, too.

Now when I walk past that mirror countless times each day, I’ll hear the Lord’s voice: “We’ll get through it all… together.”
“Surely God is my help; the Lord is the one who sustains me.” (Psalm 54:4)