Believing a Lie

My Mom was a hard worker, doing housework the old fashioned way. She used cloth rags instead of disposables and preferred her own cleaning potions to fancy sprays. She used to say the most practical gift any young bride could receive would be a bag of beautiful, soft rags. I didn’t have the heart to tell her a modern bride wouldn’t think they were beautiful or know what to do with them.

Mom scrubbed her floors on hands-and-knees and didn’t own a mop. “How can you get the corners?” she’d say. Using a rag and being on hands-and-knees made sweeping unnecessary, because she’d pick up bits of debris with her rag and rinse them out in her bucket (leftover wash machine water).

One day she was crawling along her kitchen floor, washing away the results of a visit from six preschool grandchildren. She loved cleaning up after these little people, calling the aftermath “a happy mess.” She’d scrub sticky Jello leftovers off the linoleum and remember the fun of making Jigglers with them. She’d scoop up Cheerios and think about the pudgy baby eating in the high chair.

On this day she came across a stray raisin and thought, “Still in good shape,” and popped it into her mouth. One chew told her she’d made a huge mistake. It wasn’t a raisin at all but the product of a toddler’s diaper.

She dropped her rag and got to the bathroom as fast as she could. But brushing her teeth multiple times with lots of toothpaste couldn’t remove the taste from her mouth or the impression from her brain.

All of us have eaten food off the floor. Well, maybe that’s just our family. But surely everyone has heard of the “Five Second Rule.” If something has been on the floor less than that, it’s safe to eat. Of course Mom’s raisin had been there too long.

But that was only part of the problem. Her “raisin” wasn’t a raisin at all but merely something that appeared to be one. Appearances can be deceiving, and she’d been deceived.

Her experience is a memorable illustration of the way deception works. Our enemy, the devil, is the definitive master of disguises. He lies, cheats and deceives with expertise, cloaking wickedness in goodness. “Go ahead,” he sweet-talks. “It’ll be even better than you think. No one has to know. You deserve to have things go your way for once.”

On and on he coaxes with endless patience, tugging us toward a slimy slope with complete devastation at its end. He never runs out of ideas and uses the exact disguises that are attractive to each one of us, an expert at his craft.

Before we have a chance to check if it’s really a raisin, we’re chewing it.

(Tomorrow: Believing the Truth)

“When the devil lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies. There is no truth in him.” (John 8:44)

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Surprise Party

All of you blog readers know I pray for you daily. God seems to supply different requests on different days, and I fully believe as these prayers reach him, he turns around and customizes the answers toward your specific needs. After I write the blog each day, which often takes a couple of hours, I re-read it, which makes me a blog reader, too.

Cyberspace is a strange place. In the last year or more you’ve learned more than you ever wanted to know about me, but I know very little about you. My son-in-law Adam, who shepherds this web site, tells me 317 of you are subscribers, with many more visiting the site each day. I can’t even imagine who you all are, and I don’t have access to a list of your names. (As you subscribe, your privacy is preserved.) You are what I call “cyber-surprises.”

Praying for you has given me two other cyber-surprises:

1. I’ve gained a better understanding of God’s ability to be active in every person’s life every day.

2. Though I don’t have details about the lives he brings to my attention each day, he applies my prayer to them.

It’s a zooming-out and a zooming-in. God is teaching me to think larger than my known world while simultaneously reminding me he’s got one-on-one intimacy with each of us. When I try to make sense of this, smoke comes from my ears, but of one thing I’m sure: your presence at this web site is a thrilling cyber-surprise to me.

Today I thought back to the 42 days of Nate’s cancer. When we were swamped with phone calls, emails and notes from people asking what was happening with him, this blog answered that need. It delivered the requested information without taking us away from Nate. There just wasn’t time to do it any other way.

Sadly, there still isn’t time. No one at my house is terminally ill, but neither you nor I have enough time to meet with or have lengthy conversations with each other. While I was praying for you this morning, feeling frustrated over the one-way-ness of a blog site, God gave me an energizing thought.

In the hereafter, we’ll meet. God is planning a cyber-surprise party for us that he’ll transform into a just-plain-party! And we can celebrate togetherness throughout eternity. You’ve already “met” me, but I’ll get to meet you at the party, and you’ll get to meet the other blog readers. We’ll have the fun of looking into each other’s faces, hearing each other’s voices and chatting about our earthly histories. This will be a blessing the likes of which we can’t yet appreciate, one of the endless goodies God is preparing for us.

By the way, because you already know everything about me, when we get to God’s party, I’ll expect you to do all the talking.

You are members of God’s family.” (Ephesians 2:19b)

Looking at Lent

My kitchen calendar tells me this week is the official start of the Lenten season, 40 days of preparation toward remembering Christ’s sacrifice and celebrating his resurrection. I grew up in a protestant church that didn’t practice Lent, but I remember Catholic neighbors who did, and thought I was lucky not to have to give up stuff like they did.

In my 65 years I’ve never participated in Lent. But now I’m attending a new church where a Lenten sacrifice is a choice, and I’m going to try it. The purpose of Lent is to make our hearts right before remembering the crucifixion and celebrating the resurrection. The 40 days represent the time Jesus prepared for his ministry in the wilderness, a time during which he sacrificed eating in an offering of difficult self-sacrifice.

When I was young, our Easter season consisted of spring vacation, which brought us to Good Friday, followed quickly by an Easter worship service and a lamb roast. It was heartbreaking to dwell on how intensely Jesus suffered because of us and for us. We preferred to skip over Good Friday to the happy tune of, “Up from the grave he arose!”

The idea behind Lent is to invest 40 days in a “season of sorrowful reflection,” a period of grieving over Jesus’ death. Three things are important: extra prayer time (focusing on God), fasting (focusing on self-deprivation) and giving (focusing on neighbors).

Like any spiritual discipline, Lent can become legalistic, entered into by rote habit or because someone else forces the issue. But as a way to honor Christ’s sacrifice with a sincere heart, a quiet participation in Lent is an effective thank-offering to our Savior.

For the last couple of weeks I’ve been asking God what he’d like me to surrender as a Lenten gift of worship. Ideally it would be something I do or eat daily, something I’d really miss. Should it be certain foods? Trips to the beach? My ipod while walking Jack?

Today I decided. I’ll give up my favorite daily treat: rice cakes and peanut butter. Although that may sound insignificant, my kids all know I’m addicted to this combo, and they’ve seen me eat 7 or 8 in one sitting. Back when I was trying to lower my cholesterol, I quit rice cakes for several months, a difficult challenge. In the end, red yeast rice pills worked better on the cholesterol, and I went back to my PB and rice cakes.

A Christian’s body is the temple of God’s Holy Spirit. Sacrificing something we physically crave is probably a good way to privately acknowledge that our bodies are not our own and that we’ve bought with a high price, paid by Jesus. What better time to think about this than in the weeks leading up to Good Friday.

When Easter morning finally arrives, many families will begin that day with hot cross buns, but I’ll be celebrating with rice cakes and peanut butter.

“Give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him.” (Romans 12:1)